If you want to chase a girl, you have to start by gaining her favor. However, many boys’ behaviors when chasing girls not only make them not favored by girls, but also make themselves lose value. Let’s take a look at the following behaviors of boys chasing girls.
1. Too enthusiastic
Two people realize that being together and understanding each other is necessary, but more important The purpose is to create shared memories. You two are a team and you understand that you have to write songs and practice dance together.
Instead of you doing your Tai Chi, I will dance my square dance. After all, you still take up such a big place and just practice yours, so I have no space at all, and you don’t let me show you your full potential. Isn't this annoying?
What will happen if you are too enthusiastic? People can see through you and there is no mystery at all, so how can you talk about attraction?
2. Crossing the line too early
I just held hands and wished I could swear to God, I will treat you well in my life. Let’s go and see your parents. , I want to make a promise to my uncle and aunt.
Let’s not talk about the parents. I know you are probably timid, but meeting people’s friends would be fine, right?
Just think about it, it’s actually quite cool. It’s embarrassing. First of all, someone’s friend will definitely look at you from the perspective of her friend, right?
Just imagine the conversation between them: 1: What, that Who said he wanted to come today? 2: Ah, didn’t you two just meet, and now we’re together? 1: No, he just said he wanted to meet you and get to know you. 2: Okay, let him come, and I’ll treat you well. Check the gate
People have already dug the hole and are waiting for you to jump out of it. Because she will subconsciously feel that you are too impatient and she wants to punish you secretly.
Even if your performance is okay then, the impression of being anxious will never be erased.
3. Care too much about effort and reward
There is a word in psychology called overgeneralization. How do many of you behave?
(Day 1) 1: Here is a drink for you 2: Okay, thank you 1: Does it taste good? 2: Yes, it tastes good
< p> (The next day) 1: Why did you do this to me? 2: What’s wrong? 1: I bought you a drink yesterday, why don’t you buy it for me today? 2: Ah???You are like a repeater every day, oh my, I have done this to you, you will do the same to me. If you don't do this to me, you don't love me.
In a relationship, everyone has different ways of being nice to others. For example, if a girl cares about a boy and buys him scarves and gloves, then the way a boy cares about a girl can be to pick her up.Give her dinner after get off work.
