How often do you need to chat with a girl? This question troubles many male friends who are pursuing love. On Zhihu, we can find a lot of discussions and suggestions on this issue. This article will combine multiple Zhihu answers to provide you with some useful suggestions and techniques.
First of all, we need to be clear: chasing girls is not a speed contest. Chatting too frequently will not speed up the development of your relationship, but may make girls think you are too eager for quick success. Therefore, in the process of pursuing girls, we need to maintain a moderate chat frequency in order to better shorten the distance between each other.
According to the suggestions on Zhihu, we can divide the pursuit process into three stages and develop corresponding chats for different stages. Strategy.
Initial acquaintance stage: At this stage, we can establish contact with girls through mutual friends or social media. When chatting, we should maintain a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere and try to avoid topics that are too personal. In addition, we can also attract girls' attention by showing our interests, hobbies and attitude towards life. At this stage, we can chat every two to three days to give each other a certain amount of space while also maintaining a certain sense of freshness.
Mutual understanding stage: As your relationship gradually heats up, the frequency of chatting can be increased appropriately. At this stage, you can share more personal experiences and perspectives to get to know each other better. However, we still need to be careful not to chat too frequently to avoid making girls feel stressed. At this stage, we can chat once a day, and each chat does not need to be too long, just keep it at about 30 minutes.
Ambiguous stage: When your relationship is already very close, the frequency of chatting can be adjusted appropriately according to the needs of both parties. During this stage, you can express your emotions more freely while also increasing your intimacy with each other through flirting and joking. At this stage, we can flexibly adjust the frequency of chatting according to the actual situation, but we still need to pay attention to maintaining a certain sense of mystery to avoid boring girls.
In short, in the process of pursuing girls, we need to adjust the frequency and content of chats according to different stages. The important thing is that we remain sincere and confident that we can win the heart of the girl we like. I wish everyone can successfully pursue the goddess in their hearts!
