When we are chasing girls, in addition to looking at appearance or first impression, there are many aspects to consider. After all, when you chase a girl, you want to develop a long-term relationship with her, not just chase her. So you have to consider all aspects to see if this girl is worthy of your pursuit. Let me share with you what kind of girls you can stop pursuing? Because even if you catch such a girl, you won't be able to keep her for long.
What kind of girls should you stop chasing?
You can choose not to chase girls who have the following three qualities:
First, girls who don’t know how to give back
This kind of girl always chooses a free prostitution attitude towards your kindness, and she doesn’t intend to do it here. No matter what you put into a relationship, you don't intend to cherish the fruits of your efforts. In the entire process of getting along and communicating, she will only act as a hand-in-hand. If you are nice to her, she will continue, but don't Count on her to give you something back. It's not that she doesn't have feelings for you when she's with you, she just loves herself more.
Second, girls whose relationship is unclear
If you and a girl have many topics to talk about, and occasionally you can make appointments alone to get together, but if you ask Girl, what is your current relationship? She will give you a very vague answer. She always takes the position of your girlfriend, but does not develop a relationship with you as a lover. Her behavior is obviously to lure you to pursue her. , such a girl will only make you consume more time and energy, and in the end she may not choose you.
So when you chase another girl and you can’t see the progress bar, it’s best to weigh it up. The one you love most in your relationship may not be the most suitable for you, and the one who is most suitable for you may not be the most suitable for you. If it’s not your favorite, maybe in the end you’ll get nothing.
Third, the girl who makes you more and more decadent
If the girl you are chasing now only It will make you more tired and more decadent the more you pursue it. Even if you want to improve yourself, but she will pull you back, then listen to my advice and stop insisting. To put it bluntly, a girl like this just doesn't like you and wants you to be decadent with her, so that she can control you tightly and make you unable to live without her. And she will also undermine your self-confidence from time to time, making you feel that you can't find a more suitable person without her.
If it is a girl who makes you more and more decadent, it is better to stay away as soon as possible. Whether we are looking for a lover or a partner, the most important thing is to be able to urge each other to improve, so that we can have a good relationship. develop.
