When she confesses to a girl she likes, but the other person says she already has someone she likes, is it necessary to continue pursuing her?
If the person she likes has not yet established a relationship with her, , and if you really like her, then continue to pursue her. After all, everyone has the right to like her.
But many times, when a girl says she has someone she likes, she may just not like you. She aims to reject you in this way and make you give up.
If you continue to pursue her in the same way as before, she will definitely be disgusted with you. Therefore, if you want to continue chasing, you must learn to pursue in a stress-free way.
When pursuing the other party, try to provide value instead of asking for it. For example:
1. Stop applying pressure
If your confession is rejected, either the other party is not good enough for you. Understand, either the other person doesn't like you and has no feelings for you. Whatever the reason, you cannot continue to put pressure on the other person. Otherwise, you will make the other person feel that you are entangled, and in the end you will not be friends.
2. Self-improvement
No matter what reason a girl uses to reject you, the reason behind it is that she doesn’t like you enough. In other words, you are not attractive enough to her. To truly solve this problem, you need to increase your value. Only value can create attraction and change the other person's feelings towards you.
For example:
When you face a very ordinary girl, you have no feeling of excitement. At this time, the other party suddenly sends you a set of photos of himself in a swimsuit, and you immediately become interested because the value appears.
Self-improvement can be the improvement of image, emotional intelligence, and love knowledge. Brothers who want to improve themselves can add and let me tell you what to do.
3. No more asking for anything
Many people think that being nice to girls means providing value. In fact, this is just a request in disguise. Because your kindness to her has a purpose, in exchange for her favor. Otherwise, why aren't you nice to other girls?
No more asking for things means that your future behavior can no longer have the purpose of asking for things. Because attraction is natural, not an active feeling, but a passive feeling. Just like when you see the goddess you like being attracted to her, she actually doesn't take any action to please or pursue you. Attraction is natural, not conscious.
4. Show value
If you no longer ask for anything during the pursuit, then the girl will not will feel the pressure, you canEnter normal interaction. Then demonstrate your value through interaction, thereby generating attraction.
If you feel that there is no value to show in front of this girl, it means that you yourself feel that you cannot match the other person. In this case, just give up.
