Many times boys think that girls like them, but it may be just an illusion. Why do you say that? This is actually a kind of sentimentality. Because many times he feels that he is too important, and an unintentional word or action from others will make him feel that a girl is interested in him.
1. Don’t over-explain girls’ behavior.
Many people have asked me recently. This girl smiled at him, took the initiative to chat with him for a few days, and even flipped her hair with him several times. Are these situations a sign that girls like him? In this regard, I can only say that this kind of over-explanation by amplifying girls' expressions and behaviors is probably the culprit of exposing your sense of need and keeping girls away from you.
Think about it. If you explain that a girl might like you, you'll be curious. You will search the entire Internet and ask this girl if she is interested in me. What is my chance of success in pursuing her? Others tell you that the girl who replies to your message for the second time likes you, the girl who is willing to spend money to like you will cooperate with you, and the provocative girl likes you. Do you know what kind of personality a girl is like? Is it possible that a girl who replies to your message instantly is just bored? Are you willing to spend money on her because she's generous, or flirt with you because she's sociable?
2. Over-sensitivity will expose a sense of need.
When you don’t know a girl well, the more you think that a girl likes you, the more sensitive you will be, and the more you will care about every move of a girl. Slowly you will start to test whether girls like you. The longer the mind is, the more it wants answers and the better it is at thinking. Just tell me the answer, you don't like me.
However, even if you do get a result that a girl doesn't like, you still won't stop pestering her. You still can't help but browse her circle of friends and take the initiative to chat with her. You can interpret her profile picture, signature, and friend circle to mean that you still have a chance, and you will want to test her again. Even if you still decide that the girl doesn't like you, your time will still be spent in struggle and pain.
In this state, you not only expose your sense of need, but also focus on explaining and testing girls. Attraction to girls is zero.
