In reality, there is a situation like this: boys and girls got along quite well before. The two of them chatted all day long, and their relationship became closer and closer. At this time, the boy may feel that it is time to express his love to the girl, so he takes the initiative to express his feelings to the girl. Unexpectedly, the girl starts to avoid the boy. Now let’s talk about why a girl becomes cold towards me even though she knows I like her?
1. Girls don’t know how to face it
When a man and a woman have not broken through the window paper, the relationship at this time will actually be very casual, and no one will get along with each other. The burden and pressure. But if a boy reveals his love for a girl at this time, and the boy suddenly breaks the situation, she will not know how to face you after confessing her love. Thinking about it from another angle, after you confess your love, she can no longer take the initiative, so the girl will be indifferent to you at this time. If you don't take the initiative, the girl may think that you are impulsive, and then there is really no chance. But if the girl refuses to accept your advances, and instead starts to be cold to you, doesn't even reply to your messages, and rejects your invitations, then you may think that the girl just doesn't want to be with you anymore.
2. The girl doesn’t know how to say no
The girl knows I like her but is cold to me. Maybe it’s her I don't like you, but I don't know how to reject you, so I respond to you in this way. You don't have to do anything now, live your life well, and don't take the initiative to find her or act like you don't care. When she needs help, just help her silently without saying anything. As time goes by, if she takes the initiative to contact you, You may still have a chance, but if not, give up. A man must be able to take it up and let it go, and work hard to prove to her that you are not bad! Girls like mature boys. Don't make yourself depressed and unhappy just because a girl is cold to you. That will only make her look down on you.
3. Why did the girl hesitate?
Maybe the girl really felt that she could get along with you when she first came into contact with you. You can make contact, but the subsequent development may not be pleasant. Girls are more sensitive than boys. Have you done anything to make her think too much...or you have not shown it clearly, making her feel that she is too proactive and wants to test. Maybe you are too unsure about your relationship and lack the courage to continue...or the girl may have tested you, but you were shy and did not express your intention at the time. She started to be cold to you in order to reduce the harm to herself. . There is another way, you are the spare tire, and she finds someone better, so of course she has to be cold to you.
The reason why a girl is cold to me even though she knows I like her is mainly due to the above three situations, which does not mean that there is no hope for you.You can continue to chase her, but you need to understand her innermost thoughts to know how to continue.
