Intimacy between male and female friends is a way of expressing love. It would be abnormal for a couple not to be intimate. If your girlfriend always refuses to be intimate, you will definitely wonder in your heart whether she doesn’t love you. , let me analyze for you why my girlfriend always refuses to be intimate? And is there any solution.
The reasons why your girlfriend always refuses to be intimate
1. You and your girlfriend don’t spend enough time together
Many girls are influenced by traditional concepts. In fact, They are relatively slow to warm up and conservative. Only when they feel that they have a certain emotional foundation with their boyfriend will they accept having intimate contact with you. Therefore, if you have not been with your girlfriend long enough and she has not completely accepted you in her heart, and she is still in the period of exploring and understanding you, she will slowly accept this kind of intimate relationship. When the relationship between two people becomes stable, women will naturally accept this kind of intimacy. In this case, you need to give her a little more time. When she is ready, nothing will be a problem.
2. Your girlfriend doesn’t love you enough
If you have been with your girlfriend for a long time, She still refuses to be intimate. The level of intimacy depends on the level of intimacy. Kiss? hug? Or have sex?
If your girlfriend is not even willing to kiss and hug you, then she doesn’t like you at all. Brother, you are the spare tire that is never seen in reality.
If your girlfriend can kiss you, hug you, etc., but refuses to have sex with you, it can be understood that she is more conservative.
But based on my experience, a girlfriend who truly loves you will not refuse to have sex with you. . . . Even if she can't do it now, she will say to save it until the wedding day. But you have to pay attention to whether she really wants to marry you, or if she is just an excuse to stabilize you.
3. Your girlfriend has had a bad experience
There is another possibility that your girlfriend refuses to be intimate. For example, she has some psychological shadows that she does not want to mention before. As long as she is intimate with you It would remind her of this shadow. It may be that she has encountered some bad things before and is disgusted with such things from the bottom of her heart. But I also really like my boyfriend. If this is the case, you need to find a way to slowly open your girlfriend's heart, spend more time with her, and free her from the shadow.
4. Your girlfriend is frigid
If you don’t understand frigidity, then you will never understand it This kind of psychology. If your girlfriend is really frigid, she will definitely refuse to be intimate, because she is not interested in this matter. At most, she will just deal with you. This can still be felt. In this case, you can only find a way to see it. See a psychiatrist or something to see if you can solve the problem.
