Can you succeed as long as you persist in chasing a girl? In fact, it is unlikely that a man and woman who have matching conditions, get along well, and have some affection for each other will need to chase for a long time to get a result.
If you have been chasing a girl for half a year, if the girl has not shown her intention to be with you because of your pursuit, there is no need to continue. The chase continued.
Because the battle line drags on for too long, it may often be due to the following situations:
The other party is not very satisfied with your conditions, so you have been looking for someone more satisfactory
The other person may not have any feelings for you, and thinks you are more suitable as a friend
In fact, you are not very suitable at all. You are not destined to be together, and you have to rely on yourself to survive
The other person is afraid of intimacy and is unwilling to enter a long-term relationship
The first three points explain one thing: you are not the best choice for the other person in this relationship at all.
Article 4 explains one thing: the other person may not be suitable to be your partner, and the other person is not a suitable partner in a long-term relationship.
Maybe some girls will not let boys succeed so quickly when they pursue them, and will stay for a while to examine them carefully. This boy confirmed that he really likes me.
But if half a year has passed and the two of them have almost run out of topics to talk about, they have met offline several times, and the girl already knows almost everything about the boy. Don’t you think it’s strange that you haven’t given a conclusion?
So chasing a girl is not something you just have to persist to the end to succeed. Don’t think that the girl you have been pursuing for a long time is your ideal partner, because you yourself You are no longer the first choice for someone to find a partner. How do you think you can get better after you get together?
So, For boys, don't spend too long pursuing a girl, because when you spend too much time and energy and the other person is not with you, it means that you are not a suitable choice in the other person's heart.
