There are not so many mutual feelings in life. Many times I may like a girl, but the other person doesn’t like me. In this case, I can’t give up. It’s too difficult to catch up with a girl. What should I do? ? Let me give you the answer below: Should I persist even though I know a girl doesn’t like her?
1. See if the girl’s attitude will change
Sometimes a girl says she doesn’t like you. It may be because based on your current relationship, she still doesn’t have feelings for you. . However, many girls are actually very slow in reading, and it is difficult for them to be attracted to a boy in a short period of time. Instead, they only accept a boy after getting to know him. So if you really like a girl and don't want to give up rashly, I suggest you persist and try to see if the girl's attitude towards you will change. Otherwise, you may regret it if you give up. Some people would rather regret their impulsive confession than their lack of courage.
@人zaibeat: Persevere, at least you won’t regret it. My boyfriend is like this. I looked down on him completely at first. I thought he was ugly, short, and arrogant. He had all the shortcomings anyway. But as time went by, my personal view of him changed. For example, he likes reading and is very kind to me. He can wait for me all afternoon under the cold wind and scorching sun downstairs in the dormitory. He can stand up when others bully me. He can always make me happy when I feel wronged... … As time went by, my view of him changed. Later, I gradually accepted him.
2. Improve yourself and increase your attractiveness
In this world, everyone has the right to choose, just like a boy wants to choose a beautiful girl, and of course girls also want to choose An excellent boyfriend. In the process of chasing girls, you can't change anyone in the world. The only thing you change is yourself. Then I want to tell the truth, like this thing is fleeting, only material conditions and personality charm are the king. Although girls may not like you now, if you can improve yourself and increase your attractiveness, it is not impossible for girls to turn around and chase you. Of course, it's also possible that after your vision changes, you no longer like her.
3. Let go in time
If you show girls all your advantages, you will also work hard. You have improved yourself, but the girl is unmoved and still says she doesn't like you. To put it simply, no matter what you do, you still can't see the hope that the girl will accept you. At this time, it is actually recommended that you give up. Because not all sincerity can be treated tenderly, and not all persistent pursuit can successfully catch up with girls. Letting go in time is also a kind of fulfillment for each other.
Should I persist if a girl doesn’t like her? In fact, when you are in trouble, actuallyDoes it mean that you have been shaken, because liking a girl cannot be measured by value. Some people insist on chasing girls and succeed; some people insist on chasing girls and still fail. Whether you insist or not is actually your own choice.
