We always say that to chase a girl, you don’t need to be nice to her, but to attract her, but many boys don’t listen. They always feel that only by being nice to a girl can she see his sincerity, and only by being nice to a girl can he be moved by her. Although it is true that many boys pursue girls by being nice to her, in fact, the training they have received is difficult for others to explain. Let’s analyze why girls don’t like boys who are nice to her?
1. Being nice to her is actually being a dog-licker
In fact, if you say it sounds nice, you are actually being nice to girls. If you say it sounds bad, isn’t it just a bit of a dog-licking thing? How a girl treats you depends on your value, not how you treat her. If you are not worth enough in her eyes, then if you are nice to her, you are just a licking dog to her. She can come and go at any time, and she will not be interested in you at all.
In fact, men and women are the same when it comes to emotional issues. When girls say "treat her well", it means that a tall, rich and handsome man treats her well. What boys cherish is "all their eyes are on her." It is all eyes on beautiful girls are her. BMW is cherished, but Wuling is not. It’s because BMW is expensive, BMW is awesome, and BMW has reputation. And even if Wuling works hard every day to work as cattle and horse-drawn goods for car owners, it will be useless. Have you ever seen any car owner go to a car wash shop to have their van polished, waxed, filmed and crystallized? Even if the car breaks down one day, the owner's emotion is just out of pity and melancholy.
2. Situations where you can treat her well
On the other hand, your "value standard" It also fluctuates for different people.
For ordinary girls, if there is a normal boy who has eyes for her, then she will be satisfied. You can chase her by being nice to her. After all, no one else will treat her. Okay, then she is naturally afraid of losing you. For a slightly beautiful girl, it may not be so satisfying if an ordinary boy has eyes for her. There may be countless men who are good to her, and she only needs to choose one among them that she can see a little bit. Boys.
Therefore, before being nice to a girl, you have to see what level of girl she is. Your kindness to her will be useful.
Generally speaking, being nice to girls will not increase your attractiveness at all in the process of chasing girls, and it will also become a reference for girls. Grind your excuse: Since you want to be nice to me, why don’t you send me a red envelope? When being nice to her has become a matter of course, she won't be able to see how much you have done for her. If you don't want to continue being nice to her one day, you will end up saying "So you said you like me and you want to be nice to me." I can only hold on for a while, so it seems that it is the right thing for me not to choose you." How did you feel at that time?
