Many boys often take the initiative when they first get to know girls, but after a period of time, the girls suddenly stop contacting them. What is the reason for this?
What is the reason why a girl who has always been very proactive suddenly stopped contacting me?
1. Temporarily lose the window
You may not be the only boy who gets along with girls at the same time. I have been very proactive before, which means I have a good impression of you. If you suddenly become cold, the other party may temporarily lose the window. For example, the ex-boyfriend wants to get back together, meets a more attractive boy, is busy with work and study, etc.
2. Deliberately hanging on to you
Some girls may seem to take the initiative, but they may just use you as a backup. She may be chatting with a group of boys at the same time. By inducing men to invest, they make boys increasingly inseparable from themselves. If she suddenly ignores you, she may be deliberately trying to whet your appetite. If she ignores you and you act anxious and need her, it means that her backup strategy has been successful and she can make demands on you.
3. Being eliminated by girls
The way women feel attraction is different from that of boys. Women judge whether they like someone. Men need to experience enough samples. If a girl takes the initiative at the beginning, it means that she is very interested in you at this time and is eager to feel your sample. The sudden coldness later on means that she has experienced enough samples and concluded that she is not interested in you and you are not what she wants.
To put it bluntly, it means that a girl will eliminate you after she knows you well enough.
4. Girls can’t see hope
If a girl was very proactive before and lasted for a long time, but you didn’t respond enthusiastically to her, she would not see any hope despite her unilateral efforts. When you hope, you may stop the loss and leave.
In this situation, if you also like her, try to be more proactive with the girl. If she likes you, there is still a lot of hope.
5. Missing the window period
Some brothers lack experience in getting along with girls, and girls are very proactive. But he didn't dare to warm up the relationship with the girl, which wasted a great opportunity. When the novelty of a girl wears off, she will no longer give you a chance, and she will suddenly ignore you.
6. Treat you as a pure chat friend
Some girls chat with men just for leisure. All they need is a pure chat friend to pass the time. I don't want to have any real interaction with you, and I won't go to the appointment to cash in.
Some guys want to cash out the invitation after chatting with such a girl for a while. If the girl can’t give you what you want, she will just refuse.Ignore you.
