Many boys will chase a girl they just met because they don’t understand her well enough and don’t know how to chase her, so they will do things that disgust the girl and scare the girl away. So before chasing, it’s better to change your mind and first understand what things you must not do.
1. Impression shaping
The most obvious thing is our appearance, for boys Just keep it clean.
In addition, don’t keep your nails long. It would be better to have them trimmed cleanly. Another point is to trim your nose hair. When you look at the girl you like affectionately, your nose hair is there. It's fluttering, isn't the picture not pretty?
After talking about the outside, what I especially want to talk to you about are some behaviors that ruin goodwill. We are so used to getting along with boys that we don't realize that certain behaviors have offended girls. Disgusted.
1. When smoking indoors, you should smoke right in the face of the girl you like. Besides, girls don’t like to smell smoke. Taste it.
2. Bragging. It is necessary to show yourself at this time, but there is still a difference between showing yourself and bragging. Sometimes when we say we are high, we cannot realize whether we are bragging. .
One of the simplest ways to judge is to observe the girl’s expression and micro-movements. For example, if she shows an impatient expression or a tendency to want to leave, it means you need to change the topic or end the conversation.
2. Improving intimacy
There is a concept in psychology called the exposure effect. Psychologist Fisher Nascent research found that when we see familiar things appearing, we will feel "like a spring breeze" and connect it to life. The more times a girl sees me, the more lovable and pleasant I will be.
This is not nonsense. Think about how we form a tacit understanding with our friends and best buddies?
However, if you do not grasp the opportunity of exposure well, it will affect your relationship. Some friends act too hastily. "Good morning" every morning, "Have you eaten?" at noon, and "Good night" at night, just because you are afraid that girls will not feel your presence.
The editor believes that before you establish a relationship, your behavior may be too intimate and will make the other party very uncomfortable.
Exposure comes and goes: The specific operation can be understood as "playing hard to get", or the timing is wrong. There is a prerequisite for playing hard to get: you have already attracted others.
But now we are chasing someone else’s girl. We fish for three days and dry the nets for two days. When I think of it, I greet you and care about it. If I can’t remember it, I forget it in the back of my mind. This is not playing hard to get, but it is hot and cold. Give the other person a bad, untrustworthy feeling.
