From childhood, girls’ parents will teach them how to protect themselves in the relationship between the sexes, but boys are exposed to the word "chasing" in chasing girls from the beginning. This also leads to the role of "chasing" in girls when they grow up. It is the role of the pursuer and the pursued.
In fact, there is no problem for boys to be chasers. After all, most boys are stronger than girls. However, when too many boys chase girls, they neither meet the real needs of girls nor go too far. He sacrificed himself and became a licking dog.
Some people even comfort themselves with the reason "If you don't like it, who would want to lick it?" But will a girl stay with a boy just because he is "nice" to her?
The answer is, no. Because this kind of "good" is just what we think is "good", it may not be the "good" that girls want. So how should you avoid being a licking dog when chasing a girl?
1. Principle
Licking dog The reason why people are lickers is because they often put their own value very low in order to please the other person. But the most taboo thing about relationships is unilateral giving. All giving must be based on the premise of equality and mutuality, so that you can get feedback from the other party. As long as your own value remains unchanged, if you praise the other party higher, there will be no problem.
In short, remember this sentence, love yourself first when you love others, and lick yourself first when you lick others.
2. Improvement
Many boys think that "chasing" a girl is actually "licking". Although the two are somewhat similar, there are actually fundamental differences, which I won’t explain too much here. Today we mainly talk about how to catch a girl without "licking".
If you want a good girl to fall in love with you, you must either be as good as her or be a better person than her.
Use the energy to please the other person on self-improvement, and you will never lose money when investing in yourself. Licking the other person will only move her, and licking yourself will make her heart flutter.
3. View from a higher dimension
Finally, I want to say, in fact, the girl you like , it must be the one you think is most suitable for you among the people you know currently.
The reason why I feel “it has to be her” has a lot to do with the fact that we know too few people.
Try to expand your social circle and make a decision before you get to know more people of the opposite sex. But at the same time, you must also know how to be satisfied and don't always have the mentality of "the next one will be better", otherwise you will never find a girlfriend.
When we like someone, we all feel that we must love her. But as I get to know more girls, I start toThe more I feel, there seems to be nothing special about her back then.
It’s a pity that I have to say something. But that's about it. I wish there would be no more licking dogs in the world, only legends about infatuated people.
