Some boys have never been able to find a girlfriend, so they can only ask relatives and friends to introduce him to girls on blind dates. But they have met a lot of girls on blind dates, and every time there is no result. Do you know what the problem is? If you have failed to date girls many times, what should you change?
How to change after many failed blind dates
1. Start with chat topics
When you meet a girl for the first time, you only need to get to know her briefly. After all, you are not interviewing, so you can talk more about food, drink, fun, hobbies, previous experiences, etc. If the conversation goes well, you can even briefly talk about future plans, etc. Blind date, compared to free love It should be more purposeful, so it’s not a bad idea to briefly talk about these.
Of course, there are also techniques for chatting with girls on a blind date, such as grabbing the key words of the girl to continue the topic, and when chatting with the girl, you can try to say some declarative sentences, and don’t keep asking the girl, etc. Wait, chat topics are the foundation. Whether you can make girls like chatting with you or not, chatting skills are the key.
2. Accumulate experience in chatting with girls
If you can’t chat with girls on a blind date, it may be because you lack this In terms of experience, when you have nothing to do, you can download some chat software and try to chat with different girls. On the one hand, you can expand your social circle and maybe meet a girl who is suitable for you. You don’t have to wait for a blind date. On the other hand, you can Exercise your chatting skills. In fact, in my opinion, chatting can also be a process of practice and summary. If you chat more, girls will give you good feedback, and you will naturally know what you say when girls don’t want to chat with you. .
3. Learn to get along with girls on blind dates
Since you choose to go on blind dates, it means that you have actually reached the marriageable age, and you may be busy at work and don’t have much. You have time to think about these things, so you can purposefully learn how to get along with girls on blind dates. This will not only save time, but also prevent you from missing out on the next blind date if you meet a girl you like more.
4. Don’t lose confidence
Don’t do it because you don’t know how to chat or haven’t met the right person yet. Girls on blind dates doubt themselves. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, but you can't think that you are bad because of your own shortcomings. Think more about your strengths and make yourself more confident. It's easy to change if you can't chat, but It’s very difficult to change your lack of confidence.
Finally, dating a girl is not something that happens overnight. Take your time and you will always meet the right person for you.
