Faced with a situation where a girl suddenly cries, many boys may not know how to deal with it. In fact, when a girl cries in front of you, she does not necessarily need to be coaxed. If you are a warm man, then you can use coaxing methods. If you are a straight man, you can also help girls calm down without coaxing.
1. Coax girls
1. If she is an ordinary friend with you and you don’t want to If you want to take your relationship to the next level and she cries when she is wronged, prepare a large pack of tissues and her favorite snacks and put them in front of her. You don’t need to say any words of comfort, just let her cry. Well, just cry enough.
2. If you are currently just friends, but you like her and want to take your relationship to a new level, and she feels wronged and cries, prepare a pack of tissues and wipe her gently. Dry your tears, then put her head on your shoulder and tell her that you will always be with her. If she doesn't resist, try holding her again and let her cry on your shoulder until she can vent her emotions. After that, your story begins.
3. If she is your girlfriend and you made her cry, no matter what angry words she says, don’t refute her, even if she breaks up with you! Just hug her hard. , keep apologizing to her, and then cry too, and keep telling her that you love her, and promise not to make such a mistake again in the future. When she has cried enough, she will forgive you. At this time, you still have to strike while the iron is hot and take her to eat delicious food and buy beautiful clothes, and that's OK.
2. Don’t coax girls
Never coax girls when they cry. Otherwise, the other party will fall into two emotions:
1. Why am I so wronged? The more I think about it, the more wronged I become, and the more I cry, the harder I feel.
2. He cares about me, and he just cries a little bit if he indulges his feelings. It feels so good to be cared about.
For example, if a couple is quarreling, ignore her when she starts crying, wait for her to vent her emotions for about 1-2 minutes, then pick her up and run away without saying a word. Wait for her to hit you so you can put her down.
For example, when she is crying outside, you run away instead of coaxing her. When she starts to wonder where you have been, she comes back with a balloon and marshmallows and says she bought this for you, so that you can Happy happy.
When a girl cries, instead of coaxing her, jump out of the scene, interrupt the emotion, and divert attention, but don't follow the emotion and say "It's okay, don't cry." Such useless words will only make girls fall into more emotions and be unable to extricate themselves. If you are at a loss when a girl cries and don’t know how to comfort her, you can add me and I will analyze and answer for you based on your situation and give you a copy with the girl.Tips for getting along.
Girls crying is an emotional expression. Emotional expression is a very important thing. If you don’t express it, you will keep it in your heart. , in the long run, it will lead to a depressed personality and chronic physical diseases. It is good to cry when you want to cry.
Finally, when a girl cries, what she cares about is your attitude. How to coax her, or whether you coax her or not, is not important at all.
