Pursuing girls is a problem that boys often face, but in the process of pursuing girls, some behaviors can make girls feel uncomfortable. This article will introduce two taboos that boys should avoid when pursuing girls.
1. Forced contact
When boys are pursuing girls, they may want to use physical contact to Express your emotions. However, if the contact is without the other person's consent, it can make the girl feel uncomfortable and embarrassed. For example, take the initiative to hold hands or hug each other when they meet for the first time, or suddenly hug each other while chatting, etc. These behaviors will make girls feel that their privacy has been violated, which will lead to disgust and disgust.
2. Excessive confession
When boys pursue a girl, they often devote all their thoughts and emotions, hoping to impress the other person. However, if the way of expressing love is too straightforward or too frequent, it will make girls feel stressed and troubled. For example, sending multiple text messages or phone calls in a short period of time to express your love, or shouting "I love you" loudly in public, etc. These behaviors will make girls feel emotionally oppressed by the pursuer, leading to resentment and avoidance.
When pursuing a girl, boys should respect the other person’s wishes and privacy, and avoid forced contact or excessive confession. Only by winning the trust and love of the other party through sincerity, patience and understanding can we achieve success.