In fact, when men and women get along, it is not just girls who dislike naive boys. Boys also need to think twice when meeting naive girls. After all, men and women need to go hand in hand. If you are the only one who has to deal with any problems in life, sooner or later you will not be able to bear it. So how can you tell if a girl is childish? Let me analyze below what are the behaviors of naive girls? I hope boys will think twice when meeting naive girls.
1. Not facing the reality
Some girls obviously have no looks, no figure, no ability, and their work is just enough to make a living, and they are still addicted to shopping. I get jealous when I see what others buy, and I don't hesitate to use credit cards or borrow money. All day long, she would either complain about renting an apartment, complain about her co-tenant’s frequent use of the bathroom, or complain about someone in the company who had offended her. If she has a boyfriend, he makes three or four times as much money as she does and he always dislikes her and always feels that she is not good enough to deserve her.
You will be very tired when you are with this kind of childish girl. She only knows how to complain every day, but she will not find problems in herself, nor will she work hard to change. You will face a lot of negative emotions when you are with her, and even the most optimistic person will not be able to hold back.
2. Use anger to solve problems
Only children will cry when they encounter problems. , hoping to attract the attention of adults and let them help him solve the problem. When adults encounter problems, they always find ways to solve them first. As for the naive girl, when she encounters a problem, she will only use anger to solve the problem, without considering that she needs to solve it herself. Maybe when she encountered problems in the past, her parents and friends helped her, but now that she encounters problems, she hopes that you, as her boyfriend, can help her solve them. In short, no matter what happens to her, she always puts her hope on others.
If you are with such a naive girl, then you will have to worry about helping her solve various problems every day. If she has a cold and doesn’t know what medicine to take, she will ask you and ask you to buy it for her. medicine; her aunt has a stomachache, and she asks you to find a way to help her relieve it; she has a problem at work today, and she asks you to find a way to help her prepare a speech to solve the problem... Such a girl does not have the ability to think independently, which makes you feel Very suffocating.
In fact, a girl's childishness has nothing to do with her age, but is inseparable from her growth environment. If a girl has lived in a family with no worries about food and clothing since she was a child, and her family members have pampered her, and she has not experienced any setbacks and difficulties in life, nor has she had any experience in society, then she will show up when she encounters things. His attitude is nothing but childish. So when you meet a naive girl, don't give up in a hurry, see if you can guide her to grow, let her experience some setbacks that she has never experienced before, and see if she can grow.
