When you fall in love, don’t just find a random woman. The key is to see if the two people’s personalities are compatible. If you meet a controlling woman, your love experience may be a bit bad!< /p>
What is control
A woman with a strong desire to control uses others' love for her to achieve her own goals. desires and demands.
The desire to control is one of the primitive instincts of human beings. Everyone wants to control some things or other people more or less.
Usually people who have strong insecurities in their hearts have a stronger desire to control. Those who are cautious, pursue perfection, and are always uneasy in their hearts want to control others.
The psychology of controlling women
1. Lack of the ability to get along as equals. Once you gain the upper hand in a relationship, you will begin to lead others and start the controlling mode. If they are in a weak position in a relationship, they will feel confused and weak. And will feel low self-esteem, depressed, and uneasy.
2. One of the most basic characteristics of a controlling person is that they want everything to be in their own hands. She felt uneasy when others were doing things, and she had to check them again after others finished them. Of course, if she did it herself, she would be relieved.
3. Insecurity and desire for control go hand in hand. People with a strong desire to control must be insecure, and lack of security will inevitably evolve into a desire to control. Because behind the desire for control is fear, insecurity causes them tremendous psychological pressure. But fear makes them choose to avoid the problem and try to alleviate this anxiety by creating external conflict and controlling everything.
Specific manifestations of a controlling woman
1. She is always right. You can't reason with her. For example, she doesn't allow you to comment on her proposal, nor does she allow you to resist. No matter whether it is her fault or not, she is always right.
2. A controlling girl will also control your time. For example, if you two go out on a date, she will arrange the next day’s schedule the night before. Even if you object, she will She will also force you to implement it, otherwise, she will do various things.
3. Once you spend too much, she will keep yelling and directly take the control of money from you. Although she is not forcefully depriving you of your financial control, the result is the same, which to some extent also reflects a woman's desire for control.
4. A controlling girl will hope that a boy can stay with her 24 hours a day. Even if you are busy, as long as you give her a call or a text message, she also hopes that you can be with her immediately.appear before her.
5. As soon as she can’t see you, she will make a series of calls (this is sometimes unacceptable to men) because a controlling woman wants to know your whereabouts at all times.
