It is said that girls generally mature earlier than boys. Maturity and naivety have nothing to do with age, but with experience. If a boy still clings to his girlfriend all day long after falling in love, puts pressure on her, hinders her from making decisions, etc., then it is very likely that his girlfriend will call you naive. What should I do if, unfortunately, my girlfriend accuses me of being naive? How can I make my girlfriend think I'm not naive?
1. Give your girlfriend what she needs at the right time
Some boys are actually very good characters and treat their girlfriends well, but they don’t know how to love at all. But he always exploits his girlfriend's love invisibly! In the name of love, he invades his girlfriend's entire life and puts countless pressure on his girlfriend in the name of love. Let your girlfriend gradually become breathless. This is why your girlfriend said that you are childish and want to break up. What to do?
In fact, the basic definition of love is to make your girlfriend happy... If you want to change, then try to do as much as possible to make her feel Happy things. Give her the support of a hug when she needs you. Let her keep her corner. Learn to listen instead of forcing her to listen to you. Don't talk all the time, but do more and talk less.
It is basically the consensus of all women about men that men never grow up. But a man's childish reservations are just a small world reserved for himself in the heart of a mature man. You can show childishness in front of your girlfriend, but childishness cannot be used as an excuse. The maturity shown by a mature man lies in his control over himself and his stability, wisdom and skill in handling things - instead of saying "I like you" and putting all your life, life, career and studies on it. On my girlfriend.
2. Be independent
My girlfriend says I am naive largely because you do not have your own life circle, or in other words, your circle cannot attract her, so you can only Stick to her. But no one likes a lackey. Two people are first two independent individuals, and then they become a whole that hugs each other for warmth. To love someone, you have to make lifelong plans, but you also have to understand that you can have your own life even if you are separated.
Therefore, when your girlfriend says you are naive, it is recommended that boys reflect on it first, and many things will become clear to them. Then you have to think carefully about what you really want and what she wants, such as maturity and independence. Complete your own transformation and give her time to forget the immature you. But remember, change is painful. And these changes are not for her, but for yourself. If you change your life circle for her and you are unhappy, believe me, you won't be able to persist.
If you are really willing to change your childishness, have your own independent life circle, and no longer have to rely on her to live, you will find that she is not that important to you. You will return to oneA balanced state: your love comes from appreciation, and so does she. If they can have their own lives and attract each other, be independent and warm each other, she will naturally come back.
